The Mommy Observation

"The Mommy Observation" is the eighteenth episode of the seventh season of the sitcom The Big Bang Theory. The episode aired on Thursday, March 13, 2014.

Summary
While Raj is having a   in Pasadena, Howard and Sheldon get their  of NASA in  and then drop in unexpectedly at Sheldon's mother who was not expecting company.

Extended Plot
In Leonard/Sheldon's apartment the, minus Sheldon and Howard, are having. Raj is sitting in Sheldon's Spot and is not worried about him finding out. Leonard remarks that Sheldon has an extremely sensitive and once sat on some  and added it up. Sheldon was so good at Howard’s that he bought him a Buzz Aldrin. Stuart enters the while they are trying to decide what to do that. Bernadette begs them to find something to do since she promised Howard she would look in after his mother if they had nothing to do. Raj is excited that they can do whatever they want since Sheldon is gone, so they ordered Thai food from a different that turned out to be terrible. Stuart eats some, looks terrible and drops to the. While everyone tries to help him, Raj announces that it is too late and that he has been ed by someone in the apartment. Raj is having a murder night. Everybody moans and Amy gets ready to leave. Bernadette never realized that Stuart’s last name was Bloom.

Standing around Stuart, Penny is worried that Raj wants them to pretend to be a bunch of lame with silly s. Raj then asks her what kind of an  she is, so she remarks how much “fun” this game is going to be. That’s the kind of actress she is. Raj has them playing themselves though Amy wanted to be somebody else. He hands out s which contain s about their character including who was the murderer. The game is to ask each other questions and to look for clues. Penny asks who is the murderer which is an illegal question to ask. Then she reverses it and asks who is not the murderer.

In, Sheldon is enjoying his new bobble-head, while Howard is driving them to his mother’s. Sheldon found it hard to not make comments during Howard’s at. Howard thinks that they have to show up with something. Sheldon is bringing the of. Fact: Though referenced in his mother’s bible, did not exist in the  until s of years later. Howard quips that he thought they would get a or a, but an  is always thoughtful.

During the murder mystery night, Raj has hidden around the apartment. Penny is going to search the for any hidden in a. Amy finds a little carrying, but that is from the  that Sheldon invented,  and. Raj reminisces that back in he was a heavy  and had to make up  to entertain himself, so as an  he is trying to do the same thing with his. Leonard has seen of him as a child and he was not heavy. Raj then notes that he is great at telling stories. Bernadette finds a for  dated   in the. Somebody in the came from the future to murder Stuart which sounds just like the movie "". As Leonard and Raj argue over the source of that, Penny goes back to the refrigerator to get another clue.

Arriving at his mother's house, Sheldon wants to carry on the and pie even though Howard bought them. Sheldon still felt that his very presence was enough of a gift. He can wait to see his mother’s expression, peeks in the front room and runs back into the. He wants to leave because he saw his mother with a   trying to be a  again.

At a   and Howard and Sheldon are each having a beer. Sheldon isn’t enough yet to discuss what happened with Howard so he takes one sip and is then ready. Howard has never had that experienced, but has seen his mother ravishing a. First Howard suggests that he doesn't tell her and then he discourages him from just calling her. Then Howard points out that this Mom is a grown and his father has been gone a long time and maybe what went on is none of his business. Sheldon feels that since he once occupied that space, he should have a say into who moves into his old.

In the, Raj takes the gang to twenty years in the future, though his friends show no real interest. Penny finds that her beer is not flat and her is not saggy, so she is. Raj hands out his facts about the gang’s future selves. Amy won a, bought Stuart's comic book store and closed it so Sheldon would pay more attention to her. She is happy about that future. Penny is a famous actress in, while Leonard is a at  in  and they have drifted apart. Raj also drifted away from them after he married. Leonard and Penny then wondered that they would do if they became. Penny is convinced that Leonard will be following his famous actress wife around because they won’t need the. Raj changes their to the both live in  and have three beautiful. Penny then objects to putting her through three.

Back at Mary Cooper's house, Howard lets Sheldon face his mother by himself to face he about her. Mary Cooper is very happy to see her until he immediately mentions what he saw. She. Sheldon doesn't want to sit in a that they had had  in, so they sit at the. Sheldon finds out that his mother met her Ron at a  and that they had been involved for a few. Then he wants to know how long she had been a demented sex. Even though that was no way to to his mother, he found her a  after quoting the  his entire. Mary Cooper gives him on chance to apologize and then sends him to his old room despite him being a, a grown  and occupying the.

The gang continues their discussion about Leonard and Penny. Leonard doesn’t understand why Penny’s is more important. The other are surprised they never talked about their future together. Amy and Sheldon’s Relationship Agreement covers, and   uprisings. Penny has no idea what will happen in twenty years. Stuart thinks that Penny and Leonard will be together because have a solid. Penny thanks him and is sorry that she murdered him prematurely ending the game to the relief of the others.

In Sheldon's, he is playing with his and Howard comes in to talk. Sheldon lets him come in since any man is welcomed in. Howard starts to describe a similar situation and Sheldon cuts him off that they have all seen his mother naked because she never ties up her. After Howard's father left them, his mother started seeing a guy who Howard drove away after delivering a vicious attack during his speech leaving his mother all alone. Howard doesn't want him to do the same thing to his mother. Sheldon concedes his point since he loves his mother even if she does like a ic.

Sheldon goes down to see his mother who what to talk calmly like adults. She is sitting on the and does cover a spot so that Sheldon will sit on it. Mary Cooper again apologizes for what he saw. Sheldon again objects to the hypocrisy after all the  she has been promoting her entire life. His mother says that she has been struggling with her. She is not perfect, but she does find Ron’s rear is. Though Sheldon finds it confusing, he plans on condemning her internally with an outward appearance of acceptance. Mary Cooper tells her son that that is very of him. Sheldon then tells her that the has change since she was. It’s no longer, s and. Mary wonders how old Sheldon thinks she is. Sheldon wants to make sure she is careful and uses. Mary looks to the since Sheldon is trying to have the  with her.

While cleaning up dinner, Raj is brooding over how his game ended. Bernadette did like the element. Raj thought that it was inspired. Leonard added that it was inspired by "The Terminator". The gang is wondering if they will all be friends twenty years from now and agree to meet there in twenty years and have dinner together. Everyone enters the in their  except Stuart who writes it on his hand. Flash ahead twenty years and only Stuart shows up in front of the apartment building for the planned dinner.

Critics

 * Jesse Schedeen of IGN - The good news is that the murder mystery itself was little more than window dressing...(Stuart's) comment that Leonard and Penny are the best couple he knows because they make each other better was surprisingly profound for the typically downtrodden comic shop owner. And it illustrates why, despite all the us and downs the duo have faced over the years, their relationship is very much the heart and soul of the series...It was a very different confrontation between Sheldon and his mother from the last time he wrestled with the notion of a man in her life, but it was definitely funny...Ultimately, both Coopers experienced some welcome character growth. Mary acknowledged that she isn't perfect, even if her boyfriend's booty is. And Sheldon realized that it's better to accept that his mother is an adult woman with needs and desires, lest he give rise to another Mrs. Wolowitz. The horror...
 * IMDb user reviews
 * Dhruv Rao of The DR Club gave the episode a B

Costume Notes

 * Sheldon wears his red Flash athletic jersey.

Trivia

 * Various references to "The Scavenger Vortex" (S7E3) are made:
 * Second episode where Raj organizes an activity for the gang which causes conflict for Leonard and Penny; the first was "The Scavenger Vortex".
 * The gang were mentioned to have kept blowing off Raj's Murder Mystery parties in "The Scavenger Vortex".
 * Stuart is involved in the Murder Mystery party after complaining about not being included in the scavenger hunt in "The Scavenger Vortex".
 * Bernadette's competitive nature is again shown in this episode, which was first shown in "The Scavenger Vortex".
 * First appearance of Leonard wearing a shirt instead of a hoodie and a jacket.
 * First time Mary has appeared in more than one episode of a season.
 * Sheldon and Howard do not share any scenes with the rest of the gang in this episode.
 * On the wall in Sheldon's childhood bedroom at Mary Cooper's house, we see a poster of the cover for Crisis on Infinite Earths #8; the November 1985 issue featuring the death of Barry Allen, the Silver-age Flash.
 * First physical appearance of Mary Cooper since "The Rhinitis Revelation" (S5E6); she appeared in "The Cooper Extraction" (S7E11), but only her voice was heard.
 * This is also the first appearance of her house since "The Electric Can Opener Fluctuation" (S3E1).
 * Sheldon seemed perfectly fine with his mother (implied to be) having a physical relationship with Dr. Eric Gablehauser in "The Luminous Fish Effect", even curious about the possibility of them marrying and him getting a new father.
 * He didn't see anything that happened; he just saw that Gablehauser flirted with his mother briefly.
 * In the bar, Howard is seen with a Lone Star Beer which he told Mary Cooper he had a "hankering" for the last time he was at her house in "The Electric Can Opener Fluctuation".
 * Stuart's family name, Bloom, which was first revealed on his Facebook page in "The Flaming Spittoon Acquisition", is verbally confirmed in this episode when Raj refers to him by his full name.
 * Howard recalls when his mother was dating a man shortly after his father left and how much he resented it. However, surprisingly he doesn't mention accidentally coming home to catch her in a compromising position with his dentist ("The Re-Entry Minimization"), though this situation was both fairly recent and closely mirrors Sheldon's own dilemma.
 * Second episode which ends with Stuart alone. The first was "The Cooper Extraction".
 * Second episode where Sheldon scolds someone for hypocrisy. The first was "The Nerdvana Annihilation".
 * Raj references Byomkesh Bakshi, a fictional detective in Bengali literature created by Sharadindu Bandyopadhyay in 1932 and later a popular Hindi TV series during the 90s.
 * Sheldon's bobble-head is of astronaut Buzz Aldrin who has appeared in "The Holographic Excitation" S6E05.
 * Continuation of Sheldon and Howard's weekend trip to Houston, Texas.
 * Bernadette makes a comment and Raj calls her a regular Byomkesh Bakshi. Bernadette wonders if that is an Indian Sherlock Holmes. Raj retorts that maybe Sherlock Holmes the English Byomkesh Bakshi. Amy checks and announces that Sherlock Holmes came first, where Raj mumbles that everyone has to be a Byomkesh Bakshi.

Quotes

 * Raj: Sheldon is out of town so we can whatever we want. We even ordered from the Thai place he doesn't like.
 * Stuart: How is it?
 * Penny: Disgusting. Do not tell him.
 * Leonard: What do you guys want to do tonight?
 * Amy: I don’t know.
 * Bernadette: I told Howie if I wasn't busy I’d spend the night at his Mom’s. So for God sakes, think of something.


 * Raj: Welcome to another classic Koothrappali murder mystery dinner.
 * Amy: I’m leaving.


 * Penny: Are you going to make us pretend to be a bunch of lame characters with silly accents?
 * Raj: Lame characters with silly acc--What kind of an actress are you?


 * Leonard: Does the gazelle with a flair for storytelling know that he’s just ripping off Terminator?
 * Raj: Does the smart-ass know that Terminator was actually ripped off from an Outer Limits script called Demon with a Glass Hand by Harlan Ellison?
 * Leonard: Oh, does the gazelle know that according to Harlan Ellison, it was not ripped off from Demon with a Glass Hand, but was ripped off from another Outer Limits script he wrote called the Soldier?
 * Penny: I'm gonna need another clue!


 * Sheldon: Boy, I can’t wait to see the look on her face..... We’re leaving right now.
 * Howard: What's wrong?
 * Sheldon: Nothing.
 * Howard: What? Sheldon, tell me what's going on!
 * Sheldon: I saw my mommy with a naked man and she’s trying to be a mommy again.


 * Sheldon: [Knock-knock-knock]. Mother. [Knock-knock-knock]. Mother. [Knock-knock-knock]. Mother.
 * Mary Cooper: Shelly! I’m so glad you’re here!
 * Sheldon: I saw you having naked sex.
 * Mary Cooper: What are you talking about?
 * Sheldon: Earlier I came here to surprise you. I looked in the window and I saw you with a man.
 * Mary Cooper: Oh Shelly. I’m so sorry. Come in. Um. Maybe we should sit down and talk about this.
 * Sheldon: Can you recommend a surface you haven’t had coitus on?
 * Mary Cooper: That’s not funny. Maybe we should sit at the table.


 * Sheldon: And of those few months, how long have you been a demented sex pervert?
 * Mary Cooper: That is no way to speak to your mother.
 * Sheldon: Perhaps not, but it is a way to speak to a woman who quoted the bible to me in my whole life and then desecrates one of Ethan Allan’s finest sofas.
 * Mary Cooper: I will give you one opportunity, young man, to apologize.
 * Sheldon: Or what?
 * Mary Cooper: Or I will send you to your room.
 * Sheldon: That's ridiculous. I am a grown man, I am a professional scientist and I currently occupy the moral high ground.
 * Mary Cooper: Go to your room.
 * Sheldon: But I occupy the moral high ground.
 * Mary Cooper: Go to your room.
 * Sheldon: But I am a professional scientist.
 * Mary Cooper: Go... to your room!
 * Sheldon: I’m a grown man. (Sheldon leaves)


 * Leonard: Come on guys, Raj put a lot of effort into this. And that's great. It's not sad, it's great.
 * Amy: I think might be fun to be somebody else tonight.
 * Raj: Actually, you’re all just going to be yourselves.
 * Amy: Oh, ugh.


 * Raj: Throughout the game feel free to ask each other questions to uncover the clues.
 * Penny: Got it. Hey, who’s the murderer?
 * Raj: Any question but that.
 * Penny: Sorry. Hey, who’s not the murderer?


 * Amy: Hey, I won the Nobel Prize in physiology. Then I use the money to buy Stuart’s comic book store and close it down so Sheldon will pay attention to me. Not the worse idea.


 * Leonard: Do you think we would really drift apart if we both became successful?
 * Penny; Of course not. If I became a famous actress and had to move, you would just come with me.
 * Leonard: If I got a chance to be a tenured professor, I might not have that much choice in where I end up.
 * Penny: Yeah, but if I become a successful actress, we wouldn't need the money.
 * Leonard: You don't go into science for the money.
 * Bernadette: Speak for yourself. Last month, my company both invented and cured restless eye syndrome. Ka-ching, ya blinky chumps.


 * Raj: Penny and Leonard, you two love birds are super-successful and living in New York. You’re an actress. You’re a professor and you have three beautiful kids.
 * Leonard: Great.
 * Penny: Really? You think I'm putting this body through three kids?


 * Stuart: I think you’re the best couple I know.
 * Leonard: Aw.
 * Penny: That’s so sweet.
 * Bernadette: What the hell?
 * Amy: Excuse me?
 * Penny: Dat-da-da-da-da! Let the dead man talk. So, why do you think that?
 * Stuart: Well, I feel like you guys make each other better. Penny brought Leonard out of your shell. Seems like Leonard makes Penny think more deeply about the world. I don’t know. Together you two make one awesome person.
 * Penny: Aw, Stuart. Now I feel bad for murdering you.
 * Raj: Oh, come on!
 * Bernadette: Penny did it! I win! Suck it, jackasses!


 * Howard: All I'm saying is you might not want to get in the way of your mom’s happiness.


 * Sheldon: I love my mother. Even if she fornicates like a demonic weasel.


 * Sheldon: I think what bothers me the most is the hypocrisy. Doesn't this contradict all the religious rules you've been espousing your whole life?
 * Mary Cooper: You're right, it does. And it's something that I'm struggling with these days.
 * Sheldon: Then, why are you doing it?
 * Mary Cooper: Because I’m not perfect, Shelly, and that man’s booty is.
 * Sheldon: Well, this is confusing for me. But I don’t want to stand in the way of your happiness. So I’ll condemn you internally while maintaining an outward appearance of acceptance.
 * Mary Cooper: That is very Christian of you.


 * Mary Cooper: Are you having the sex talk with me?
 * Sheldon: Well, someone has to.
 * Mary Cooper: Oh, dear Lord!
 * Sheldon: What? No, don't look to him. He's mad at you right now.