Talk:The Occupation Recalibration/@comment-67.173.244.66-20140103032139/@comment-67.173.244.66-20140104010455

It depends if you like their relationship or not. I REALLY love it (my favorite couple of all time, i'd say, from any media of any sort.) So I don't want them to ever break up. However, I do think Amy has been getting frustrated with Sheldon, and Sheldon hasn't been learning his lesson. I think it's high-time someone teaches it to him, whether he wants to accept it or not. The problem with Amy is that she's giving him too much space, and he's 100% accepting it. He thinks Amy adores him and that there's nothing she would leave him for, and furthermore, he may think she's the only one who can lose something here. He thinks that, by losing him in her life, Amy would be the only one who's greatly devistated (he thinks he's a huge find to her.) This isn't necessarily a bad thing, considering how Sheldon is and provided he accepts that he needs her to some degree and that he isn't in the relationship JUST for the attention/providing for Amy's sake. The problem here is that he's taken it too far, and while I think he's definitely in this relationship for love and he recognizes tha the needs Amy, he's somewhat in denial of that fact. Something, or someone, needs to push him to realize the facts are straight: that he would probably suffer the most in a break-up, that they need more give and take as Raj VERY WISELY pointed out, and that he needs to accept that he isn't in this relationship just to take and learn. Basically, i think he knows about the reality of things- he isn't totally oblivious- but he keeps denying it infront of his friends AS WELL AS himself, and as long as he's doing that, the effects are just as harmful as if he DIDN'T know these realities. I'm hoping Bert will eventually teach him that, or at least that Bert won't be some random character that'll eventually dissapear (unlike Alex, sadly.)